Monday, November 26, 2012

I got my dreaded AF for Thanksgiving

Which means I am not pregnant this month.  It was the first month though of trying, so I kind of expected that AF would show up.  Me and Hubby will just have to try harder this month then.  Maybe a Christmas announcement? 

I did buy preseed though to try for the next time we DTD.  I am also going to not temp this month and just have fun with it.  I noticed that the times I temped, I starting becoming obsessed with thinking I was pregnant, and it just drove my husband crazy and it consumed my thoughts.  What I really just need to do is just relax and just really focus on finishing school and if it happens, then it happens.

I also found out that the more I keep talking about it the more pressure my husband feels and the less likely he is wanting to perform, which really isn't good for trying to make a baby anyway.  So I will just take each day as it comes and see what happens.  I think I am going to start doing the whole temping thing again if a couple months pass and nothing.  I just need to take a break though.


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